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A romantic relationship happens because
of the hopes and dreams a couple have for
a happy life together. The marriage will
be rewarding as long as you both pay
attention to what inspires those hopes and
dreams from the very beginning.
To keep your marriage romantic, build
upon what makes your relationship
worthwhile and wonderful.
Nothing in life is perfect, so
don't expect a perfect relationship in
your marriage as that occurs only in fairy
tales. Be ready - problems will occur; you
will get hurt and you will hurt your
partner. By being overly concerned with
the problems, it will stop you from paying
attention to what is good in your
relationship, and there will be so many
good things if you take the time to think
about them.
If perfection is your goal, you will
always compare how the relationship is now
to what you think it should be, and you
will be continually disappointed. Making
the relationship better should be your
goal. Love happens by believing that both
of you can continue to build a good
relationship, through the good times as
well as the bad.
Relationship problems should be given
less attention - do you really want to
"hang out the dirty laundry"? A couple
will be much happier if they pay more
attention to everything that is good about
their relationship. When there are
disagreements, quickly move on and do not
allow the problems of the moment to carry
over to the next hour, the next day.
Your attitude will signal to your
partner that you are trying to patiently
work through the other's shortcomings. It
won't be easy - being tolerant and
non-condemning is a big challenge, but
consciously making an effort to be
tolerant will pay dividends.
Build upon what is good in your
marriage - find activities that you both
like and do them together as often as
possible. These can be simple activities
such as gardening, cooking, hobbies or
just general conversation and family
activities. Having interests that are
shared keeps a couple involved in each
other's lives. Do not develop an interest
that your partner does not want to
participate in as that simply divides you.
Try to find activites that you both enjoy
doing.
Read our free ebook "Ties That Bind"
(details below) which will provide you
with a lifetime of tips and guidance.
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